I want to date a girl who's over 30 years younger than me. Is that wrong?
I find myself highly attracted a 21 year old girl. I'm 54 but don't look my age. This girl goes to Harvard, she's not a bimbo, and she is extremely sexy looking. She wants to be a criminal defense Lawyer. I just find her to be so much more attractive than most women my own age. She's got an amazing body and a**, gorgeous face, beautiful skin, and she's smart. Aside from school she works part time at the restaurant I manage. I find myself staring at her and flirting with her, and she seems receptive towards me. Would it be wrong to date her?
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<<"Is that wrong?">> I guess not, if you can afford her.
On the other hand, if you are intelligent, you will pretty quickly tire of the immature young woman that she is. No matter how smart she is, she is very, very immature compared to your age group. That's gonna get a little tiring for you to explain all your generational meanings you draw from.
Also, at age 21, they are very idealistic -- which is tiresome too.
Don't you want to look at someone in their early forties instead? Or are those woman too mature for you?
On the other hand, if you are intelligent, you will pretty quickly tire of the immature young woman that she is. No matter how smart she is, she is very, very immature compared to your age group. That's gonna get a little tiring for you to explain all your generational meanings you draw from.
Also, at age 21, they are very idealistic -- which is tiresome too.
Don't you want to look at someone in their early forties instead? Or are those woman too mature for you?
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PS: At 21 I would NEVER have looked at an old dude with wrinkled hanging down balls. Ugh, no spankyou
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- I'm an 18 year old guy who goes to to Nottingham because I wasn't smart enough to get into Oxford. But if that girl was smart enough to get into Harvard, then she's certainly smart enough to keep away from a douche like you. At least I'm smart enough to know that you spell trouble. Are you always so superficial?
- come on, 30 years is more than a generation. why can't you have a 21 y o work at your restaurant and you still maintain your dignity?
you know there's no future in it, she's barely out of her teens. even 14 years is alot but 30 is absurd.Source(s):
i share Zoom's sentiments, 
You do look your age, you just think you dont' but the hands know.
Of course she is lovely, what a deep and meaningful relationship you are offering this young woman. I am sure she will love to go out with you and stay with you after she has become a lawyer...lol
sorry but midlife crisis men and women amuse nhell out of me. Many women are gorgeous, such is life, but you are supposed to be older and wiser and dating a girl that younger than you is a very finite decision. You have no hope of long term, You will start to age in your 60's when she will probably want children. You will be 64 when she is starting her most amazing part of life. and she will definately want to do what you did when you were young, but you will be in the way and she will do it behind your back or dump you.
Be logical. If you just want a lust time, go for it, but put her first and realise you have had your life and she needs to have hers
Doesn't she already have a dad?
